1 00:00:00,660 --> 00:00:07,290 With these principles in mind for these steps to conquer your fears, create a list of ways to face 2 00:00:07,290 --> 00:00:14,130 your fears, include items in your list that very difficult, be as creative as you can to come up with 3 00:00:14,130 --> 00:00:17,460 a variety of situations that will trigger your fear. 4 00:00:18,270 --> 00:00:20,790 How difficult to each one would be. 5 00:00:21,090 --> 00:00:28,050 Make your best guess about how much distress you would feel in each situation as zero to 10 scale tends 6 00:00:28,050 --> 00:00:31,170 to work well, but use a different skill if you prefer. 7 00:00:31,230 --> 00:00:37,600 See the example that follows a arrange your items in descending order of difficulty. 8 00:00:37,950 --> 00:00:42,690 This ordered list of exposure ideas is called your hierarchy. 9 00:00:44,670 --> 00:00:49,920 You might build your hierarchy and preach it to make it easy to work with. 10 00:00:50,310 --> 00:00:58,160 As you review your list, do you notice any big gaps in your numbers, like a jump from a two to seven? 11 00:00:58,380 --> 00:01:05,040 If so, look for ways to modify your items to make them easier or harder so you can add intermediate 12 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:05,610 items. 13 00:01:06,300 --> 00:01:12,330 For example, doing a difficult activity with a loved one can make it more manageable and can facilitate 14 00:01:12,330 --> 00:01:14,480 a transition to doing it on your own. 15 00:01:14,950 --> 00:01:22,710 Jason was determined to overcome his fear of driving, and if the abbreviated version of his exposure 16 00:01:22,710 --> 00:01:30,360 hierarchy looked like this activity driving on the expressway, a long drive with the Express with a 17 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:30,900 friend 18 00:01:34,290 --> 00:01:35,540 where doctors.